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Bila Kita Jatuh, Kita Bangun Semula :)
Setelah gembira ada kecewa, setelah kenyang ada lapar, setelah kepuasan ada haus dan begitu juga setelah jatuh ada bangun setelah sakit ada kesembuhan. Setiap yang nikmat akan hilang andai kita berlebih-lebihan dan setiap yang hilang pasti ketemu, dalam sesat pasti akan ada petunjuk dalam kesulitan akan ada kemudahan.
Orang yang cerdik akan berusaha merubah kehidupan dari rugi menjadi untung. Sedangkan orang yang bodoh akan membuat setiap musibah dan masalah menjadi bertumpuk dan berlipat ganda. Jadi bila jatuh ayuh mari kita bangun semula, Allah tak pernah biarkan kita bersendirian. Kerana sesungguhnya setiap kesulitan pasti ada kemudahan. Ambillah hikmah dari setiap kejadian.
Ketika kita tertimpa sesuatu ujian, kita harus melihat dari sudut yang paling terang dari Allah. Ketika kecewa dalam percintaan, kemungkinan kita akan terus melihat kebahagiaan itu laksana pelangi. Tidak pernah terfikir di kepala sendiri. Sebenarnya, putus cinta bukanlah pengakhiran segalanya. Ia adalah satu langkah yang baik andai kita tangani dengan positif.
Pada permulaan kita rasa sukar menerima hakikat. Tetapi percayalah akhirnya kita tetap akan Redha dan Tenang andai kita yakin pada Allah dan serah bulat-bulat pada Allah. Yakinlah wahai hati, semuanya dari Allah adalah yang terbaik untuk kita walaupun belum terserlah kebaikannya pada pandangan kita. Namun yakinlah, pandangan kita terbatas dan pandangan Dia pula Maha Luas. Mungkin dia bukan rezeki dan jodoh kita sekarang, mana tahu nanti Allah sediakan dia pada waktu yang tepat 
InshaAllah mari kita kendalikan diri kita dalam berbagai kesulitan yang kita hadapi ! Dengan begitu, kita akan dapat mempersembahkan bunga mawar dan melati yang harum. Sebaiknya Bila Jatuh Bangun Semula, Allah Mahu Kita Belajar Melihat dari sudut lain dari kesedihan itu. Sebab, belum tentu semuanya yang menyedihkan, pasti ada kebaikan, secerah harapan, jalan keluar serta pahala.
Bila Jatuh Bangun Semula. Jangan kita bersedih, Ingatlah selalu kepada Allah dan kembali kepadaNYA.
“(Iaitu) orang-orang yang beriman dan tenang tenteram hati mereka dengan zikrullah”. Ketahuilah dengan “zikrullah” itu, tenang tenteramlah hati manusia.(Ar-Ra’d 13:28)Oleh itu ingatlah kamu kepadaKu (dengan mematuhi hukum dan undang-undangKu), supaya Aku membalas kamu dengan kebaikan; dan bersyukurlah kamu kepadaKu dan janganlah kamu kufur (akan nikmatKu).(Al-Baqarah 2:152)
Perumpaan orang yang selalu berzikir kepada Allah dan yang tidak pernah berzikir kepada Allah bagaikan orang yang hidup dan orang mati. Maka, positiflah kala tidak diberikan apa yang diharapkan. Bersangka baiklah kepada Allah, bahawa apa yang Dia beri, itulah yang terbaik buat kita sebagai insan! Bersangka baiklah kepada ALLAH ! kerana ALLAH beserta dengan sangkaan kita.
Labels: islam
Ways to Treat Your Parents
Ways to Treat your Parents, according to Quran and Hadith :)
01: The most essential duty of a Muslim child (no matter how young or old you are!) is to show kindness and respect towards his or her parents. This can be in a form of many things; from kind words to warm hugs! In fact, Allah has commanded us to be kind to our parents in his verses, so it’s an important duty that should be taken seriously.
Related verses from the Quran:
“Your Lord has ordained that you must not worship none but Him, and that you must be kind to your parents” [Al-Isra 17:23]
“And worship Allah and do not associate anything with Him and be good to the parents…” [An-Nisa 4:36]
“We have advised the human being, ‘Be kind to your parents’” [Al-Ankabut 29:8]
Related hadith:
Narrated by Ibn Mas’ud (r.a): “I asked the Prophet (pbuh): What is the most beloved deed in sight of Allah, the Almighty?” He (pbuh) said: “Offering salat in due and prescribed time.” I then asked: “What is next?” He said: “Kindness to one’s parents.” I further asked: “What is next?” He (pbuh) said: “Jihad for the cause of Allah” [Al-Bukhari & Muslim]
Related verses from the Quran:
“Your Lord has ordained that you must not worship none but Him, and that you must be kind to your parents” [Al-Isra 17:23]
“And worship Allah and do not associate anything with Him and be good to the parents…” [An-Nisa 4:36]
“We have advised the human being, ‘Be kind to your parents’” [Al-Ankabut 29:8]
Related hadith:
Narrated by Ibn Mas’ud (r.a): “I asked the Prophet (pbuh): What is the most beloved deed in sight of Allah, the Almighty?” He (pbuh) said: “Offering salat in due and prescribed time.” I then asked: “What is next?” He said: “Kindness to one’s parents.” I further asked: “What is next?” He (pbuh) said: “Jihad for the cause of Allah” [Al-Bukhari & Muslim]
02: Parents are to be treated like Kings and Queens; hence we as daughters or sons should always speak nicely and generously to our parents! And don’t forget to smile whenever you speak to them (yes, even if you’re on the phone! :P)
Related verse from the Quran:
“Whether one or both of them attain old age, do not express to them words which show your slightest disappointment. Never yell at them but always speak to them with kindness.” [Al-Isra' 17:23]
Related verse from the Quran:
“Whether one or both of them attain old age, do not express to them words which show your slightest disappointment. Never yell at them but always speak to them with kindness.” [Al-Isra' 17:23]
03: Have you ever heard a nasyeed called “Your Mother” by Yusuff Islam? This is also one of the ways to treat your parent; which is to give EXTRA love to her! Mothers deserve fine and awesome treatment, for they have borne the child’s burden during pregnancy, has undergone birth pains, sacrificed her own comfort to her children, so many others!
But this doesn’t mean you should ignore your fathers! They too, are super awesome, so both parents must be treated with much respect.
Related hadith from Quran:
Narrated by Abu Hurairah (r.a): “A person came to the Prophet (pbuh) and said: “Who among the people is most deserving of my fine treatment?” The Prophet (pbuh) said: “Your mother”. He asked again, “Then who?” The Prophet (pbuh) replied, “Your mother”. He asked again, “Then who (is the next one)?” The Prophet (pbuh) replied “Again, is it your mother” He (again) asked “Then who?” Thereupon the Prophet (pbuh) said, “Then it is your father” [An-Nisa 4:82]
But this doesn’t mean you should ignore your fathers! They too, are super awesome, so both parents must be treated with much respect.
Related hadith from Quran:
Narrated by Abu Hurairah (r.a): “A person came to the Prophet (pbuh) and said: “Who among the people is most deserving of my fine treatment?” The Prophet (pbuh) said: “Your mother”. He asked again, “Then who?” The Prophet (pbuh) replied, “Your mother”. He asked again, “Then who (is the next one)?” The Prophet (pbuh) replied “Again, is it your mother” He (again) asked “Then who?” Thereupon the Prophet (pbuh) said, “Then it is your father” [An-Nisa 4:82]
04: Don’t wait for special occasions to show your appreciation towards your loving parents! There are many ways to show your appreciation to them; like giving flowers, free back massage, cards, cook their favourite food, and many many others (within your capability and creativity!) And remember, everytime you do, do it with the right “niat”, and full with sincerity. In the end you’d just want to please Allah and make your parents feeling joyous :)
05: The best way to treat your parents is to continuously make dua’ for them! Make dua’ in your prayers or sujud, whenever you thinking or missing her, or even the times when they are in your presence. May Allah bless our beloved parents and grant them Paradise, amin!
“Rabbi-r-hamhumaa ka-mma rabbayaa ni sa-ii-ra”
Dua’ for parents in the Quran:
“Be humble and merciful towards them and say, ‘Lord, bestow Your Mercy upon them as they cherished me in my childhood’” [Al-Isra 17:24]
“Rabbi-r-hamhumaa ka-mma rabbayaa ni sa-ii-ra”
Dua’ for parents in the Quran:
“Be humble and merciful towards them and say, ‘Lord, bestow Your Mercy upon them as they cherished me in my childhood’” [Al-Isra 17:24]
06: Whenever you feel like it, tell your parents without hesitation: “I LOVE YOU!” *heart*
Labels: islam, muslim, Ways to Treat Your Parents
